The Loving Mum is Not on Hiatus, Just Busy

Friends and fellow blogging mums have been checking in lately to ask if I was still alive or something has happened. Thanks much for your love and letting me know that there are still real people who cares about my well being. Very grateful.

Well, it’s been quiet a crazy time for me and my new baby. Yes, The Loving Mum has got Baby No. 3 and her name is AM Collective. Ha! At times I think I spending more time on this new baby than my own two real babies at home, but hey, newborns usually get more attention right? So ya, I’ve been busy with this baby and I’m happy it is growing up well and very well nurtured by the awesome team I am blessed to have onboard. And I’m super excited about our new home for AM Collective!

Besides work, I’ve been spending the very last bit of my left over energy and time on my family and a little on myself. Personally, I’ve put on a lot of weight, so much that my grandma who’ve not seen me for few months asked what happened to me when I visited after a work shoot near her.  I was just relieved that she didn’t assumed I was preggy again! LOL! For the record, my factory is closed for good ok. I missed my slimmer days when I was undergoing my #TLMgetfit journey… maybe it’s time to set aside time to do it again!

With the crazy weight gain, my body has also been acting up with lots of aches and pain all over my body. I feel like a 70+ old lady each time I had to stand up from my work desk and in the morning when I have to get out of bed. I tried an hour of session with Dr Stretch a month back and it did help relieve some pain, but after that I’ve not managed to book another session due to the erratic schedule of mine. I’ve paid for a package with them so I must die die force myself to visit them again soon so that I don’t waste money again lah.

Family wise, I think we are doing well. And I think I’m probably the only parent whom isn’t overly panicking about primary one registration. So we did our registration online and if we don’t get into this school, we’ll just register at the next closest one for us. No pressure. Haven’t been doing much of a coaching nor teaching with the girls also, play is important right? They are still a kid! Studies and all these stress will be on them for a big part of their future days so why start so early right? See I’m trying to comfort myself already. Ha!

Ok… seriously I have no idea where this post is going… I’m just blabbing away here trying to get some time away from the crazy among of work waiting for me…

Ending this quick update with some photos from the recent days and activities in my life…

My forever baby… refused to go to bed because I was still busy typing away past her bedtime. And this happened.
We don’t get to go out on weekday nights so this rare visit to Mustafa was quite fun. Bought these for their racial harmony day celebration in school and the littlest one will be performing on National Day at a community event! This is one of her moves for her dance performance. Can’t wait to watch her dance on stage!
Sometimes I can’t tell who’s the elder one… can you? 😛
My birthday weekend was spent in JB and it seemed more like a celebration for the girls than for me. It was fun to just getaway from work and spend time filling my family love tank.
And lastly here’s me in my super round face and spot all those white hair! OMG!

Ok, break time’s up! Back to work now…

I’ve something to say… but I didn’t know how

If you were asked to dedicate one message to one person, who will you dedicate it to? Most people would say thank you to their family member, spouse, children etc, and I thought it would be the same for me too. But when I stepped into the #OnePersonOneThing “confession box” yesterday outside Ocean Financial Centre, I recorded a message for someone else instead.

This year has been quite a roller coaster ride for me – a stressful period when my grandma had to undergo a major operation, along with the influx of new responsibilities at work, a terrible three and emotional five in the family, and my struggle to achieve work-life-balance. Thankfully, everything kinda went pretty well. I’m truly blessed to be able to do a lot of things this year because of the people in my life.

Aiyah, easy lah, just say “I Love You” and “Thank You” to my family in the booth and I’m out in a jiffy. But when I’m alone in the recording booth, the past 11 months flashed past my mind and I recorded a message for my dedicated co-workers and partners-in-crime.

Without them, I wouldn’t have been able to accomplish all that I did for the company. And because of their dedication and hardwork, I was able to let go and spend time with my family and do things I need to do whenever, wherever. Because of the different personalities, experiences and mindset, we were able to push one another forward, and learn from one another.

They have seen the worst side of me (well almost lah!) and also seen the best where we win projects and achieve what we were set out to do. Of course, there are setbacks and failed pitches, but we learn and we improve along the way. This is really just the beginning and the road ahead is much longer, wider, spiral and dangerous too for some, but together we will travel this journey and make our mark in what we do.

My team. My support. My friends. #weareamco #iamclaudialim #trehaus #alvinologymedia

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Thank you my comrades Soon Koon and Caren for believing in our vision, our goal, our dreams. Together with Alvin and the rest of us in AM Collective, we will be doing lots more greater things together! I’m not an expressive woman lah, and you know I am really bad at all these mushy and ermmm… emo talks and all, but I hope this short video I did will be the first baby step for me to start sharing about my gratitude and opening up more with the team.

Thank you for always being there, supporting everyone onboard and making sure things are done! Here’s the unglam video of myself for your ermm… LOL moment.

Do you have something you’ve always wanted to say but never knew how? Here’s your chance to do it without having to ermm… face the person directly or type out in words (because some things meant more when spoken lah), head down to #OnePersonOneThing booth outside Ocean Financial Centre and get those words out of you. You can take and retake as many times as you want and send the message to that special someone in private or share it out openly on Facebook for everyone to see.

#OnePersonOneThing booth will be at Ocean Financial Centre, 10 Collyer Quay, Singapore 049315 till 9 Dec 2016, from 10am to 7pm. If you can’t find the building, lookout for this giant Christmas Tree, the booth is just right next to it!

This post is written in collaboration with Prudential Singapore, all opinions, experiences and thoughts are author’s own. For more information about this please visit Prudential Relationship Index.